Knowing When You Should Get Married

In order for your to get married in Australia the registry wedding nsw will require you that both of you sign declarations stating you are over 18 years of age, not legally married to someone else and are not directly related to each other. Marriage is becoming something of a novelty in America. According to USA Today, marriage rates have hit a historical low: 6.8 marriages per thousand for the years 2009 to 2011. As recently as the year 2000, the rate was 8.2; in 1970, it was 10.6. A variety of societal ills have been posited to explain this decline; young people are at times stereotyped as being lazy, unable to commit, or lacking any respect for tradition. The destruction of the family unit is seen as a central force in the phenomenon.

In reality, many younger people don’t have a chip on their shoulder against marriage; they don’t, as a general rule, forego it to be “edgy” or because they believe marriage is a dated, pointless institution. Yes, some are jaded by high divorce rates, but on the whole, that is not the cause. The heart of the matter is that people between the ages of 18 and 34–the prime marrying demographic–are financially crippled compared to the generations preceding them. Forced to stay in school well into their twenties in order to have any career prospects whatsoever, then saddled with student loan debt into their thirties and beyond, and at times unable to afford their own accommodation, the traditional practice of throwing a large expensive celebration and then settling down with a spouse justifiably seems unobtainable. Marriage is becoming a sign of privilege, more than a sign of one’s values or desires.

Many people, especially people from very low income families who cannot afford higher education, would love to settle down with a reliable spouse. But, due largely to the decline in manufacturing jobs, work for low income people is so scarce that many (males in particular) are engaged in criminal activity trying to get by, and therefore are not candidates for becoming reliable, stable spouses or parents. The question on everyone’s mind seems to be, “in a society that offers so little stability, why bother to get married?”

Why marriage is still a viable option.

While marriage may seem like a large and possibly needless expense, the legal and financial benefits of marriage outweigh the initial investment (remember, too, that marriage does not have to be elaborate in order to confer these benefits). Approximately 1,400 legal rights are given to married couples in the U.S. Typically, these are composed of about 400 state benefits and over 1,000 federal benefits. The practical application of these benefits is not to be overlooked. What if your partner is suddenly taken ill? Marriage confers status as next-of-kin for hospital visits and medical decisions where one partner is too ill to be competent. You can get joint insurance policies for home, auto, and health insurance. There is dissolution and divorce protections, such as community, property, and child support. Inheritance is granted automatically in the absence of a will; there are joint leases with automatic renewal rights in the event one partner dies or leaves the house or apartment. There is the inheritance of jointly-owned assets through the right of survivorship, bypassing numerous expenses and taxes… Need I go on?

Marriage, in essence, is an investment that helps keep you financially covered in the event that there is an emergency. While this may not seem deeply relevant at age 20, as one gets older, yes, marriage is definitely a worthwhile option to consider–one that can save you money.

With so many factors to consider, is there an ideal age at which to get married?

This is yet another hotly debated topic; there is often a lack of agreement between people on whether it’s better to marry young and leave plenty of time to settle down and raise a family, or to wait until you’re older, more secure, and know yourself well. Some argue that people used to get married in their mid-teens and yet have long, happy unions; that marriage and a family makes one mature into a steadfast adult. Others argue that you can’t possibly know what you really want or need before you’re at least 25.

Studies show that the latter group is closer to being correct; experts usually swear by the fact that couples who wait until age 25 to tie the knot have a better chance of lasting. The reasons, however, once again have more to do with practical and financial factors than the emotional maturity of young people. College simply is not a good time to be trying to develop a deep relationship. Couples often have to live hours apart, school and part-time jobs take up every waking hour of the day (and usually at least a few hours when one should be sleeping); performance anxiety, burnout, and financial pressure combine to make people combustible. School, at this age, simply takes up all of a person’s resources–financial, emotional, and time-wise. It is only logical, then, that waiting until this tumultuous time is over would produce a more peaceful and lasting union.

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