Sexless Marriage And Divorce

sexless marriage and divorce
Why do some people give thumbs down when someone says divorce in sexless marriage?

I’m in a sexless marriage (over a year) because my husband is mad at me for calling his mistress and telling her he is a married man.

I noticed on my Q&A and others that many people get thumbs down for suggesting divorce as a solution in a sexless marriage. Why is this? If your spouse isn’t sexual or intimate with you what is the best way to get out of a no sex rut? Is getting it else where an option if your not sure of divorce?

you think hes not having sex with you because you called his mistress a year ago?! no honey, hes still sleeping with her. Go ahead and get it somewhere else.