If you and your spouse have grown apart, how can you fall in love with each other again?
We’ve been married almost 4 years, and have two beautiful kids. Things have been rough lately, and we’re growing apart. I don’t want to lose my husband, but the romance is completely gone from our relationship. I have seriously thought about moving on, but I still love my husband and don’t want to put my kids through a divorce. He feels the same way. Is there a way to save our marriage, or is it time to call it quits?
You have to date again. Have time to yourselves for a change. See along the way us parents forget about what brought us together in the first place. Have a date night twice a month. Cook together, talk, take time out of the day to pet each other and remind each other of why you two are so good for one another. He is still a hot guy and you are still a hot gal. Show it. Take care of each other. Keep yourself up and make love not just have sex. Or you can make it hot and dirty every now and then. Relax for a change and have fun together. When was the last time you two laughed and had a really good time? Get out of the old routine you two have created and enjoy life, kids, and each other honey. It is not rocket science.