What do you do when you realize you may have driven your husband away?
I have the best husband in the world and I have treated him terribly. Now he wants a divorce and I want to save our marriage. I knew things weren’t good but I had no idea that they were so bad. Not that this is an excuse, but I believe a contributing factor to my behavior is a sleep aid that I was prescribed that I have since stopped taking. I am trying to be a good wife and a better person and would like advice on how to win my husband back. Thank you for any help you can give.
Even though you seem to be on the path to divorce there is still hope to save your marriage.
As you have learned, your behavior has an enormous influence on your husband.
You behavior has pushed him away, so you must convince him you have changed through your new behavior. Tell him what you have told us, but then SHOW him that you mean what you said.
It will take determination and lots of effort. The only way your husband can learn to love you again is if you are a more lovable person. By showing him you have changed you will make it easier for him to love you again.
Remember, love is a verb and you show it by the actions you choose every day.
I wish you the best of luck.