Divorce On Kids

divorce on kids
How Are Some Kids Completely Unaffected By Divorce While Others Aren’t?

How is it that some kids do not get affected by divorce while others take it really badly?
For example, I have a family friend who got divorced a few years ago because his ex cheated on him and didn’t love him anymore. Their kid did not seem mad or upset at either of the parents and lives happily with his mother although she did the cheating. He doesn’t enjoy spending time with his dad. I was wondering why. Does anyone have an answer?

I was close to my parents and when they divorced everything changed. I wasn’t upset at all, I think if a kid can see it coming, she/he can prepare themselves. I think the son was close to his mom in the first place so when there was a divorce, he naturally was closer to her even if it was her fault.